Q: I do regular cover gigs, but I also play with a few original artists and I’m worried about them conflicting. I was wondering how you balance your “work” gigs with your “fun” gigs?
A: I have touched on this in previous columns, but this is a topic worthy of its own dedicated discussion.
For starters, this is a subjective call, and there is so much that goes into a decision like this, including where you’re at. Here are some questions you might want to ask yourself:
- Do you have another source of income?
- Are you more concerned with artistic growth than money?
- Are there people that could sub for you in your primary working bands?
- Are you having any fun on those working gigs?
- Which gigs make you happiest?
For many, the balance is the struggle. I’m sure all of us would love to have those perfect, musical gigs that are fulfilling, push us musically, and pay well. On the other hand, if you turn down too many gigs, your phone will ring less and less over time, until it doesn’t ring at all.
Here’s how I approach it: there are only two bands in which I am the only guy for the gig, and they are both good paying gigs that only do occasional tours, leaving much of my schedule free. For the rest of my gigging life, I am 100% a “hired gun” and people know ahead of time that I may or may not be available. If it is a gig anyone can do and/or is a low paying gig, I won’t commit too far in advance unless I know for sure I can get a sub in the case I can’t make it after all, and that finding a sub won’t be frowned upon. You don’t want to stress out the band leaders.
On the flip side, the gigs that may not pay much more than gas money but have the huge artistic award are gigs that I’m all about, and I’ll fit those into the calendar as best I can. That means I can still pay my bills with the other gigs, and still have some fun on nights when I’m open.
It sounds like you may be balancing two bands or so and worrying about a conflict between just a few outlets. In that case I would probably do the following:
Join both bands.
If money from gigs is an issue (no day job, or crappy day job) I would probably let the band leader know that I may have occasional conflicts here and there, but that I would always make an effort to honor my acceptance of a gig.
If money is not an issue, screw it. Commit yourself to the artistic and musically constructive gigs and tell the Cover Band that there may occasionally be conflicts but
Always make an effort to honor your acceptance of a gig.
If there’s a conflict, follow your heart, instinct, gut… and make the call.
When you bail on a gig, you should really try and find a competent sub if you can. At the very least, offer to help find a replacement while apologizing profusely.
Like I said, every situation is different and you really have to follow your heart and balance your financial needs vs. your artistic preferences. As idealistic as we’d all like to be, when it comes to relying on playing bass to make a living, compromises must be made at times. My advice is simply to try and strike a balance and never give up your art entirely for a paycheck. You might as well get a job and get some health benefits and start a retirement fund, in that case because nobody wants to grow old, be broke and realize that they hate the music they’ve been playing for 40 years.
Readers, what do you do in these situations? Tell us about it in the comments.
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